Be The Best Of Yourself

“There is huge misconception between just be yourself and be the best of yourself” so, the question now is why so many people still use “just be yourself”? Don’t just “be yourself”, but be” the best of yourself”.  Because if we just be ourselves without make the significant changes, that’s means we will not be able to reach the better things. So, how to be the best of yourself?

Learn to be accepting of others. We tolerate people of differing races. We tolerate people with differing opinions. And that’s exactly the problem. We cannot truly interact with, cannot truly live with, cannot truly love that which we merely tolerate. We must learn to trade tolerance for acceptance and, yes, even love. Being accepting means truly believing or coming to recognize other people.

Stop nit-picking yourself. We all have insecurities we are ashamed or annoyed about, we all have things that aren't exactly beautiful, it's true we are our own worst-critic. A little critical self-evaluation is a good thing, too much focus can be destructive. If you go looking for what’s wrong with yourself, then that’s what you will find. Try looking for positive things about you, and you may surprise yourself.

Be carefree. When you start to care what people think about you all the time, then you're wondering what everyone is thinking all the time. After you die who's going to think about you then? So if no one is going to think about you after you die, why should you care about what someone thinks when your alive? Why should you walk around worrying what half the world thinks every day, when half the town wont even be at your funeral? Don't dwell on the negative, instead, reach for something positive. Don't worry about the little things in life, appreciate and go for something that you've never tried.

Be kind. What does it mean to be kind? Help someone, give a thoughtful compliment, offer a heart-warming smile, give a kind impression, and etc. The most wonderful thing about kindness is that you can never give too much, and you never be too nice. Being nice can range from small to big things, but it also can never be under appreciated, even if it does seem that way.

Be yourself. That means following your own style, and believing what you can be, the most crucial part in being the best of who you can be.